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Rita's Story

February 11, 2003 I donated an incompatible kidney to my husband, Andrew. That’s right- a totally incompatible kidney (both blood type and cross match). The operation was performed by Dr. Lloyd Ratner at Jefferson Hospital, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

Andrew and I launched a website on our first year anniversary for two reasons: First- to inform those who suffer from kidney disease that a viable, medically proven alternative to a compatible organ transplant is available. And second, to recall our experiences in the hope that it will help others through the process.

http://www.mykidneytransplant.com/

It really took no time for me to decide to donate a kidney to my husband, Andrew. When you love someone as much as I do, it becomes natural to do whatever it takes to help your loved one feel better. One of the reasons I fell in love with Andrew was his outgoing personality and positive outlook. Andrew’s failing health started to adversely affect his activities and overall outlook on life. I wanted to do "something."

In order to qualify for the ABO-incompatible transplant, I had to undergo numerous tests. They included x-rays, electrocardiogram, urine and blood tests, CT scans as well as a psychological evaluation. It was rigorous, but not invasive.

These tests can take months to complete. Since time was critical, I completed the battery of tests in two weeks. I was gratified and excited to receive the call on New Year’s Eve that we were accepted into Jefferson Hospital’s ABO-incompatible program.

The laparoscopic procedure to remove my kidney was minimally invasive, relatively painless, and left only a small faded three inch bikini scar. I was discharged from the hospital within four days and well enough to drive and perform routine activities within two weeks.

Thousands of people are waiting for a kidney transplant. ABO-Incompatible surgery expands the chance of donating a kidney to a non-blood relative, spouse or friend. The truth is- if everyone knew the ease and satisfaction of donating a kidney, more transplants could occur and more lives would be saved.

Regards,

Rita Weber
Director of Marketing & Sales
Vital Computer Resources, Inc.
900 S. Broad Street
Trenton, NJ 08611
Phone: 609.392.6655

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