I'm sorry to hear that the transplant team hasn't contacted you after surgery. I had several followup visits with my social worker (independent donor advocate) and nurse coordinator, and both of them were very clear that they have an open door policy if I had any questions or concerns, even down the road. I was very fortunate and have not needed any additional help, but I really appreciate that it's there if I need it. I am not sure how it is set up at other facilities, but my team was actually completely separate from my uncle's team. I think the only person on my team who knew us both was the nurse coordinator. My surgeon, surgery team, and social worker were all only in my corner. My mom was there when the surgeon said to me that he feels very strongly about this set up, because it is a conflict of interest to be on both sides, and he wants to be concerned for his patient - me, and only me. I would hope that this is the standard practice, but I'm not sure that it is. I would also hope that there is a social worker involved in every living donation, and available afterward. I would definitely contact the hospital to find out if they have a way to help you. I hope they do, and I wish you all the best.
Taryn