I justfoundthis website and am so grateful. I have never talked with another donor and have been reading posts here. It is nice to not feel alone. My surgery went very well, felt great leaving the hospital, had those funny repositioning feelings and was trying to go sparing on the pain meds, but still took them twice away. I was worried that they discharged me without my bowels working. Also asked my donor advocate and my nurse about numbness in my thigh. They didnt seem to know but said not to worry, probably something that would go asay. Surgery on Monday, discharged Wednesday, called on Saturday because nothing was happening, bowel wise. Eating greens, prunes, prune juice, fruits, taking colace and senna. They advised us to just wait. I had increasing pain in my right side and nausea, making it hard to even drink water. I was also walking a lot every day. Called again Sunday after using suppositories without luck. Again warned against enema, milk of magnesia or other laxative. Went to ER that night and got minimal relief with an enema and an IV for hydration. An X-ray showed my entire colon full. I stopped taking anything for pain but Tylenol on Saturday out of fear. Tuesday went for my one week check, unable to eat, and they hospitalized me. My right side was extremely painful and I began noticing that my thigh was not numb anymore but my hip and right side of my back was numb in a funny way. Numb to touch, it hurt if you rubbed it or pressed very much, it he'd fiercely but couldn't feel scratching for relief. Finally got some Benadryl for relief. It took them 4 days to get me moving. I won't detail the treatment other than to say that it was awful. But it worked. Now, more than three weeks post op I continue with great recovery from the actual surgery but only yesterday noticed my nausea was gone. And my back continues weird. Now when I lean ack it. Feels on that side like I am leaning into some brambles. Neither the doctor or the donor liaison have a clue, and generally just dismissed it all when I saw them a few days after discharge the second time. They also dismissed a cough which my husband and I expressed. Oncern could be bronchitis or pneumonia (something I am prone to). They sent me home, 450 miles away. Last Friday my husband took me to urgent care and I have pneumonia. Thank God for Z-pack! Getting better there now too. Sooo.... About the numbness, weird back feelings...anyone else ever have this? Does it go way? Is there anything you can do for it? is it nerve damage from the surgical position (my theory)? And what do you do when. They treat your concerns like you are just weird?