Dear "Chopsticks",
Hi. I hope and pray that you are both recovering well. Get up and around as much as possible, as it really helps. Even a very very short walk is a benefit.
Also, if you want to do some at-home shopping go to the "Home" page of this site and click "Living Donation Forum". Then scroll down to page two of the postings and find "donation related gifts". Past donors and recipients have sent in sources of all sorts of shirts, hats, jewelry, pins, plush kidneys, stickers and just about anything you can think of. ("Urine Love!" T-shirt?) So, buy each other a present if you feel like it. The pair of "I Gave the gift of life" and "I received the gift of life" lapel pins from the National Kidney Foundation are (I think) especially nice. No, I don't get a commission on sales! Just wanted to let you know what's available.
Fr. Pat