Hi Everyone,
I have been reading your very helpful posts for awhile now, and I very much appreciate all that you have shared. I have a few questions on topics that might have been covered, but I might not have read that far back in posts just yet!
I am donating a kidney to my coworker as part of a chain donation. He and I actually match, but I thought since I am a universal donor, it would be nice to take at least one more person off the waiting list. Our date has changed twice now, and the two other participants can no longer be part of our chain (reasons unknown to me, due to privacy laws). They will be testing a new potential participant next week. Does anyone here have experience with this? My friend is frustrated at the delays, but I still feel that it would be best to wait a bit longer to see if we can help someone else. Those that were part of chains, how long did you have to wait to proceed? I am conflicted about waiting on more participants, feeling guilty having my friend wait. He was very angry at first, but now agrees that it would be nice to help someone who has been waiting even longer than he has.
I have only told my immediate family and my supervisor at work. I do not plan to tell many (if any!) of my friends. I am guessing other people have felt the same way. If so, what did you tell your coworkers/ friends about your absence? My family is very supportive, but they don't understand my desire to keep this whole thing private.
One more question (for now, anyway!): is it true I will no longer be able to take anything stronger than Tylenol after donation? I haven't taken Tylenol since I was a little kid, but I do know that it doesn't work as well for certain types of pain (cramps, arthritis, etc.)
I appreciate any feedback, and am grateful to have found this site!