About three years ago I logged into this website constantly. Looking for answers to my questions on health problems from being a kidney donor with complications. Gained alot of friends, especially Donna Luebke. My frustration from my health issues took me away from this site, and chose to become silent about my health problems and pretend it wasnt there. Which, the transplant doctors and other specialists told me it was just a "mind over matter" thing. So, a few days back I register to this site again, my memory didnt allow me to remember my old user name, lol. I thought I had been off here long enough that I was emotionally stronger, and at a good place in my soul concerning the donation. Oh how I deceived myself. In fact, I think I have ANGER that has truly built up, and maybe just going out into a huge field and screaming might help relieve it all. Reading about others complications, or their wondering if something is wrong, just brought back so many emotions that I sit here again wondering just how to get past it all. When your in such pain everyday, and your body has deformities now, and a transplant center that turned you away over and over, tell me, how do I let it go? I have heard so many times "Everything happens for a reason", I cant find a good or bad reason for this. Just pure cruelty, and I DONT UNDERSTAND why I deserved this.