Thank you very much for your replies.
So, elephant, maybe three months wouldn't be that much of a stretch to wait? I love the saying "hope for the best but prepare for the worst". To me, that's just practical. So, I'm approaching this much the same way. I'm preparing as though I'll be approved, but know that I could easily be deferred.
Father Pat,
That's great advice. I was in a car accident in December that left me with a broken ankle. I've developed arthritis, and gained some weight. One of the main things I'm doing right now is starting an exercise program to get healthier and lose some weight, getting prepared financially, and also talking with my family about what to expect and thoughts on what we're doing.
I'm within the guidelines for weight, but I've read so many times that being a healthy weight is vital to a good recovery, that I want to make sure I've done everything possible to help that along!
Leah