I'm officially approved as an altruistic kidney donor. My recipient is a lovely person and we've become good friends throughout the process. I'm grateful we are each surrounded by supportive, understanding loved ones. But some people...
One question I get asked so often: "Why are you doing this for a stranger?" Sometimes, surprisingly, in a not-so-nice tone of voice. My recipient is experiencing the same. It's as if some people are simply unable to fathom the idea of a person helping another person, just out of simple kindness. Isn't that sad? I believe each and every one of us has a responsibility to help one another, from the smallest things in life, to something big like this... donating a kidney.
I want to be clear. I have no problem whatsoever with someone asking me why I'm doing this. I truly welcome the opportunity to, and even enjoy, educating people on the process. But, I do have a problem with "automatic suspicion/cynicism."
I'm interested to learn what others here have experienced. Please share...