8 Months after mom decided to be tested as a kidney recipient and consented to allow me to be tested as her donor we are FINALLY on the official lits. We had a few delays, mom would not let me get tested until she was on the list, I waited an extra few weeks to lose a few more lbs, billng snafus, and a coordinator who always seemed to tell me that I needed just "one or two" more tests, then mom needed one or two more. We are finally and officially "on the list" to find a donor chain that will match us.
This process seems very similar to friends who are adopting a baby, paperwork and more paperwork and then in can happen at "any time" but most likely not for another six months. In the meantime I am babying my kidneys and have continued to lose weight, have almost given up diet coke, haven't had ibuprofin since March and bought mom a new robe ( for the hospital) for Christmas. Wish us luck!