Buddy K0543

Donor Story: I recently went through donation and was unable to donate directly to my mom as she had antibodies to my antigens. I have the unique experience of having gone through the paired exchange program. Also, I have a history of kidney stones and had to have several more tests before I was approved to donate. I am a school psychologist who is trained in counseling.

Buddy K0541

Donor Story: I feel having my mentors was a very enriching experience. I have not only my experiences but others as well. This helped me be prepared for the donation process in a way that I couldn't have without them.

Buddy K0506

Donor Story: I am a single mother of two children and want people out there to know that even in this situation, a donation is still possible. If anyone has questions about the process, I would be more than happy to answer them!

Buddy K0496

Donor Story: As a recent donor, I am very familiar with the process and the amazing impact that it can have on your life, the life of the recipient and others. I welcome the chance to share this life-changing experience with others who wish to learn more, the same way someone helped me!

Buddy K0471

Donor Story: Living Organ Donation is one of the most selfless acts you can ever partake in. The fact that you are able to give someone a new life instantly is the most incredible thing I have ever and will ever experience in my life.

Buddy K0463

Donor Story: Very factual and honest with entire experience.

Buddy K0381

Donor Story: Donor and recipient experiences were very positive. I kept a journal of the medical testing prior to transplant and also after the operation for both myself and my brother. I have self published a book, "Six out of Six," detailing this journey and also included manageable lifestyle tips and exercise info to aid recovery.

Buddy K0321

Donor Story: Mom with 5 kids, working full time as a nurse, donated to unrelated donor.

Buddy K0311

Donor Story: I have the ability to empathize with what a potential donor is going through. My experience as a donor can be valuable in regards to easing a potential donor's anxiety.

Buddy K0306

Donor Story: When I donated my kidney I had no idea the things that had to happen, there wasn't much info online about the actual tests, surgery, things to bring to hospital, etc. and if I had someone to talk to it would have been a huge help to calm some of my worries so I would like to be available if anyone like me has any concerns.

Buddy K0299

Donor Story: The greatest gift in life is to be blessed with the gift of health. I had two very healthy kidneys and my dearest friend in life unfortunately did not. I went through years of watching her suffer. It gave me so much satisfaction to be able to give her something I was blessed with and still live a perfectly normal life. I went on to have three beautiful healthy children! My life at 43 years old with 3 young children has not changed at all...except the fact that I saved a young woman's life. There is no better feeling I could ever explain than that!

Buddy K0291

Donor Story: Unfortunately, the donated kidney was rejected. Although my surgery and recovery were not problematic, I believe those who donate and it does reject have a special need to meet others who have had this happen. There are not many of us. Donating to a child, then having the kidney reject presents its own set of emotions. I would like to be able to help anyone else who is in the same situation.

Buddy K0259

Donor Story: My experience as a living kidney donor is very recent (Nov. 20, 2008) and I feel I can help someone who is considering this option by walking them through all the ups & downs of this very important decision. It is a life changing decision which will affect many peoples lives, not just the donor. Hope I can help!

Buddy K0233

Donor Story: My experience was somewhat different from what I expected. I wish to avoid having living donors experience the unexpected.

Buddy K0187

Donor Story: Professionally, I am a certified counselor and am training to be a counseling psychologist (4th year doctoral student). On a personal level, I feel that I would provide a great deal of support, encouragement and positivity throughout this process. Throughout this entire process, I documented almost everything I did, feelings that I was having, thoughts that crossed my mind... I feel that anyone who is considering being a living donor may definitely benefit from my own experiences.

Buddy K0457

Donor Story: Would just like to give them that extra confidence and let them know that everything will be OK afterwards. We truly are giving a gift of life... my dad is still going strong with my kidney and for that I truly am blessed.

Buddy K0552

Donor Story: I am outgoing, and have no problem speaking to people. Although my husband's family is very taboo about the process, I am the opposite when it comes to discussing this. I strongly believe in donation and I can only hope that this taught my children something positive in life.

Buddy K0557

Donor Story: Besides being a donor, I am also an RN. Information is power, and everyone should be as knowledgeable about their health as possible. I am also a fun person to correspond with!

Buddy K0590

Donor Story: I think it would be comforting to talk to someone who has the experience first hand. I wish I had someone I could have talked to prior. I did some research and found a man who responded to me but I didn't have someone to talk to on a regular basis and I think it would have been comforting.

Buddy K0628

Donor Story: I had such a positive experience and I want to help provide answers to questions potential donors have. I had a mentor who was there to answer my questions every step of the way and I want to help be that person to others.

Buddy K0599

Donor Story: I went through this process over 15 years ago. I can attest that it has not changed the quality of my life in any way.

Buddy K0608

Donor Story: I had a very positive experience as a living kidney donor. I'm willing to share my experience for the benefit of others considering living kidney donation.

Buddy K0611

Donor Story: My donation story was and continues to be a fairy tale, complete with a happily ever after. Being an altruistic donor, I met my recipient 2 months post surgery. You couldn't find two more different people if you were trying to. And yet, the experience - for both of us - has changed our lives for the better, in every way. Although everyone's experience will be different, I look forward to sharing mine with anyone who is considering donating. From the medical and physical experience to the emotional... I wish this opportunity had been around for me before I donated... The more you know, the more better. I look forward to sharing with you...

Buddy K0626

Donor Story: As a result of my interest in donation, I have spent the last 5 1/2 years working in a kidney transplant center. I have learned the other side of donation. I am blessed to see every day, the results of the donor's YES.

Buddy K0639

Donor Story: I was a donor for my friend, and my mother was also a donor for her brother. I am here to support anyone else going through their donation journey.

Buddy K0743

Donor Story: I can help answer questions and guide them through the entire process. Since I did a non-direct donation I can answer questions about that too. I would love to help others through their journeys.

Buddy K0806

Donor Story: I have had a generally positive experience, and can be of some emotional support as I know that is needed.

Buddy K0319

Donor Story: I was extremely apprehensive, although determined, to donate. I'm a type A personality, business woman, and slight hypochondriac. There wasn't a question I had that I didn't ask or a fear I had that I didn't get past. I feel I would be very understanding of what someone else is going through. Yet I'm healthy, happy and work hard to help other donors.

Buddy K0739

Donor Story: I'm very open to sharing my story. I'm kind and understanding.

Buddy K0672

Donor Story: I am willing to be very open and candid about my experience and have had almost eight years to heal from my donation. Since donation I have had two babies and could talk to women concerned about childbearing. In my day job I work for the University of Wisconsin Organ and Tissue Donation team working with deceased donation. Because of this I am very knowledgeable about donation and very comfortable talking about it.

Buddy K0754

Donor Story: My transplant team didn't give me very much information so I felt very under prepared for the process and I want to make sure no one else fees that way.

Buddy K0257

Donor Story: To help them understand the benefit you will give and the effects on the donor.

Buddy K0440

Donor Story: I found having a living donor buddy invaluable during the period leading up to, and just after, my donation. I'd like to offer the same kind of resource to other potential donors. I am married, no children, but two dogs. My husband and I are in our 40s and very active. We do triathlons (swimming, biking, running), as well as hiking and just enjoying life. Since my donation, I have already started resuming these types of activities. My recipient (step dad) is also doing well and is more active now than before.

Buddy K0213

Donor Story: As a health care provider I understand the importance of educating oneself about any medical procedure, especially elective surgery. I would like to help other potential donors learn how to advocate for themselves and make educated and informed decisions. My surgery, as well as my recipient's was very successful. Neither one of us had any complications and we were both able to resume our normal activities. For me the decision to donate was difficult. I know a lot of people, especially family members, are anxious to help their loved one. But there are those of us who are ambivalent and have a difficult time making that commitment because of the high stakes. I would hope to let potential donors know that everyone's experience is different. Whether they decide that living donation is the right choice for them or not, having someone who has been through it and just holding your hand along the way can make a difference.

Buddy K0800

Donor Story: I am a good listener and good talker. I would also like to advocate more for donors. People need to be aware. I started a FB page for living liver donors.

Buddy K0623

Donor Story: I am a big advocate for and on behalf of living donors. I am supportive, kind, and caring. I think I would make an excellent support system before, during, and after the experience.

Buddy K0748

Donor Story: I want to help alleviate any misconceptions or anxiety a potential donor may have because they don't have the information they need to make a decision on whether to be a living donor.

Buddy K0751

Donor Story: I am open and honest about my journey and love to share the benefits and experience of becoming a living kidney donor. It was a very rewarding experience and I do feel like I have knowledge to share about the process leading up to, during, and the recovery and daily life following surgery. I am a wife and mom of 3 and felt called to do this, and now feel called to pay it forward and help others on their journeys.

Buddy K0785

Donor Story: I am empathetic, personable, patient and kind. I am enthusiastic about the donation process as well as realistic about possible concerns potential donors may have. I can take the time to answer questions openly and honestly without bias or pressure. I am passionate about sharing my experience with others.

Buddy K0402

Donor Story: I learned a lot about the process and did a lot of self education.

Buddy K0561

Donor Story: I was 67 years old and in very good health when I donated my kidney to the husband of my niece. I volunteered for this transplant surgery (was not asked), did lots of research and talked to other men who donated within the past year who also had the same surgeon at the same hospital. They helped me understand what to expect. The more you know the better and I'd be happy to share my experience with anyone who might be considering a transplant.

Buddy K0646

Donor Story: I'm a good listener and people have said that I put them at ease. Naturally I have the experience of being through the pre-donation work-up process, nephrectomy and post-surgery. I'm also a brand ambassador for Donate Life America so have skills in terms of pubic speaking and talking with strangers.

Buddy K0741

Donor Story: I found throughout my donor process the importance of advocating for yourself. Additionally, there is so much ambiguity throughout the process that it is so important to have someone who knows the pathway.

Buddy K0443

Donor Story: My journey of donation was the most incredible journey I have ever taken and I would do it again in a heart beat, that said - I know that during my journey there wasn't anyone that I could really talk to about my feelings - sure I was able to share them with others but it was obvious they were not connecting, at least not on the same level. I really think Living Donors need one another to ask questions and share thoughts and feelings - good or not so good (I'm grateful that I didn't have any of the not so good ones). I look forward to being a Living Donor Buddy . . . . For me - being a Living Donor was being a part of someone's prayers being answered - Does life really get any better than that?

Buddy K0581

Donor Story: I would love to be able to talk to potential donors and help with any questions or concerns they may have. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Buddy K0196

Donor Story: I think I'd make a good Living Donor Buddy because I'm a good listener and love talking to new people. I'm 25 years old, and I donated a kidney in mid-September 2007 to my best friend's mom. I would love to be available to answer questions or offer support to anyone who is planning on or interested in learning more about donating. Best to all! 🙂

Buddy K0794

Donor Story: Recently I spoke with someone my mother works with who was about to be a living donor. I spent time on the phone with her explaining my experience. She found it very helpful. It made me want to hopefully assist others.

Buddy K0673

Donor Story: I was able to donate my kidney to my 16 month old daughter. I would be a great advocate for those wishing to donate to a loved one!

Buddy K0391

Donor Story: I believe someone would choose me because I am easy to talk to, a great listener and I feel good about my experience. I have a lot to share. I just had the surgery this past fall and so everything is still fresh. Lastly, as much as I enjoyed the whole experience, it would have been nice to have had a living donor buddy, so if I can provide that for someone else I would jump at the chance.

Buddy K0780

Donor Story: I love helping people and educating those who have questions about organ donation. I am in a living kidney donor Facebook support group in which I have absolutely loved helping people answer any questions that arise as well as ease their anxious thoughts. I am positive, yet raw and honest about how my experience was and want to provide someone else with some insight, positivity, and friendship throughout their journey.

Buddy K0688

Donor Story: On my 40th birthday, I visited a lab to start the first round of testing to become an altruistic kidney donor. It was the most rewarding way I could think of to celebrate my good fortune and health. Soon after the transplant, I was told that the recipient was doing well. I couldn't be happier with my decision to donate life.

Buddy K0653

Donor Story: I donated. I know first hand what they will face during the process, what they can expect. Most of all, just be a support person to call when nobody else understands how they feel.

Buddy K0220

Donor Story: I have already done so, having spoken with/written several donors and recipients.

Buddy K0732

Donor Story: I had a wonderful experience! I didn't read all the negative blogs about organ donation! I learned some tricks that I would like to pass on.

Buddy K0583

Donor Story: I am a kind, caring, patient and compassionate person. Donating a kidney to my sister was the best thing I've ever done in life. I would like to help someone else who is considering donating as well.

Buddy K0635

Donor Story: I am an altruistic donor. My donation set off a domino effect where four people received kidneys. I was the first of my kind at UK hospital. I got to meet everyone in my group, except my recipient and his wife. I had an amazing recovery. I love helping people and LOVE to share my experience with anyone that is interested.

Buddy K0735

Donor Story: During the evaluation process I realized I was in a very small group of people. I didn't have anyone to talk to about my experiences. I did find help with an online support group for Living Kidney Donors. I volunteer with Lift Gift now and try to raise awareness for the importance of organ donation. Living donors still are a small group and undergo unique challenges and stress during the evaluation process. My experience has been 100% positive and while this is not always the case, I feel I understand the complications and the emotions other potential donors experience during the evaluation and donor process.

Buddy K0203

Donor Story: When I first decided to become a donor for my husband, I was unaware that any message board or assistance existed. I did not discover this board until late in the process. I found that all the emotions and other issues I experienced were fairly common among donors. My anxiety and fears were more from not knowing what to expect. I would like to use my experience and motivation to help another person so that they do not go through that same scenario of feeling alone in the process.

Buddy K0337

Donor Story: I would have loved to have had a Buddy when I was going through the process. I relied on information from a book, stories on the NKF website, and my nurse coordinator. I will be truthful, candid, and caring.

Buddy K0490

Donor Story: I'm a good listener and I don't judge. In the lead-up to my surgery I found it tremendously helpful to speak to people who had been through it, and I'd like to give back by making myself available. I'm not an evangelist for this surgery and won't try to convince you to do it. For me donation was a necessary evil, but it ended up opening my heart to my mother in ways that I could not have foreseen.

Buddy K0631

Donor Story: I suppose I would be of most help to someone contemplating non-directed kidney donation. I think in some ways, it is a bit more challenging to go through the process or, at the very least, more lonely. People in general have a harder time understanding and accepting the motivation for an anonymous donation. Even the medical personnel seem to scrutinize anonymous donors more. I think I can help answer questions that someone might have and maybe echo some of the feelings and emotions that come with the prospect of anonymous donation. The mere fact of contemplating giving a life saving organ is a wonderful gesture and something that can be tremendously life affirming and positive, but it can also be challenging. If I can help someone in some fashion through their own process towards donation, then I am happy to do so.

Buddy K0387

Donor Story: Having been through the process, I understand that awareness around kidney donation is very low. I would want to make people more aware of this process.

Buddy K0565

Donor Story: I am able to communicate my experience very honestly. I am a middle age mother and wife. I work full time. I am a runner (5kx4, 10kx1, 15kx1) I would enjoy being a Living Donor Buddy and sharing my experience with others.

Buddy K0566

Donor Story: During the testing and up to today, I have kept track of everything I went through as a donor. I also have a running list of the little things you never think about, like taking lip balm to the hospital for the surgery.

Buddy K0697

Donor Story: I have had the rare opportunity to walk through kidney donation twice with my father. My mother was the first to donate to my father, 16 years ago. My memories of that experience were nothing but positive, so when it was looking like the time was coming that he would need another transplant, I took the steps required to see if I could donate to him. I tell everyone that walking through this trial with him was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life. It is the chance to do something so much greater than ourselves! 8 months out and nothing in my life is any different than before surgery.

Buddy K0747

Donor Story: I found out I was a match for my dad and it took nearly 5 years to be approved (on his end). I've learned so much about the process, before, during, and after donation. My dad's new kidney is doing amazing. I am passionate about organ donation and would love to answer questions and help someone else feel the sense of comfort as they go through the experience.

Buddy K0708

Donor Story: I recently went through the transplant process as a donor and I am eager to have the opportunity to discuss the journey that I have had and to listen to the questions and concerns of someone who is considering a donation. I enjoy listening to and conversing with others, so I believe I could provide encouragement, positivity, and support.

Buddy K0814

Donor Story: I love having the opportunity to discuss living donation with others. I had a positive experience, but I am open to sharing the full breadth of the experience, the highs and the lows. Overall, it has been incredible to see my father-in-law return to health, but there were certainly some bumps in the road along the way. It would be an honor to have the opportunity to share my story and help others who are considering this same journey.

Buddy K0303

Donor Story: I had a very positive experience and want to help others who are thinking about donating or in the process.

Buddy K0792

Donor Story: When I donated, I had an LDO buddy and she was immensely helpful. I donated at age 26, so I can help younger donors. I like to answer questions, help research and provide moral support. Sometimes reaching out to a neutral third party can be helpful, especially if you have doubts or worries. I hope to be a good resource for anyone considering donation.

Buddy K0716

Donor Story: I became a kidney donor to save my son. My kidney size was not sufficient for him and I became a bridge donor. Although I was very physically active (worked out nearly every day) it took me 9 months to medically qualify to be a donor. I believe my experience may help others.

Buddy K0485

Donor Story: I'm very thorough.

Buddy K0781

Donor Story: I will be glad to help anyone with any questions they may have. If my experience can be used to help someone I am all for it.

Buddy K0587

Donor Story: This buddy system is a wonderful idea - one I wish I had known about prior to my own donation. Though the surgery went well and the recipient has flourished with the transplanted kidney, there haven't not been bumps along the way. To have that support and knowledge of like-minded individuals is critical to the success of the donor. So much of donor success is focused on the short-term and there is so much more at stake, and 1 or 2 years down the road. I would like to be able to be there for someone - give them the support that I wish I had had.

Buddy K0817

Donor Story: I would provide positive realistic support to someone considering being a living donor. I gave to my sister due to her battle with lupus. My mother was 95 at the time. I was her part-time caregiver, as well I worked full-time. I followed the doctor's advice as did my sister. We are both doing well.

Buddy K0813

Donor Story: I worked as a living donor coordinator at the same center where I donated. Was hired 6 months post donation. I had a wonderful experience and would love to share it with others. I am a member of kidney donor athletes, and have done the Kilimanjaro hike and Everest Base Camp hike. I want to encourage and walk along other donors that might be scared as I have a thorough understanding of the process. I recently retired from my full time RN job and do health coaching dedicated as well to helping kidney donors. Thank you for this opportunity!

Buddy K0624

Donor Story: I would be a good buddy since I have had such a great experience. My surgery and recovery have been better than I had hoped and imagined it could be. I feel like I can ease someone's nerves if they have any or are on the fence. I did not have that, not that it mattered. I would have still done it but it would have been nice to talk to someone encouraging. Thank you. Have a great day.

Buddy K0683

Donor Story: I would be encouraging and would have them focus on the dietary changes that I have found to be beneficial as a living donor. I would encourage them to see a nephrologist once a year or biennially to keep an eye on the functioning of their existing kidney. Maintain a healthy lifestyle and do not be afraid. I am excited to have learned about the Living Donor Protection Act of 2017 to protect the rights of Living Donors.

Buddy K0262

Donor Story: I am a physician, and a non-directed donor on Nov 24, 2008. I experienced an occasional minor glitch [e.g., a specimen lost] in the work-up but it was quite positive in general; the surgery itself was a very positive experience. I investigated thoroughly beforehand the medical data on the short- and long-term risks to the donor. I have also listened to donors whose experience has ranged from as positive to less positive to much less positive experience to negative. I listen well. I can also share my knowledge of the medical data and of the range of experiences. Finally, I am in contact with several advocates for potential living donors before surgery and for living donors after surgery.

Buddy K0359

Donor Story: If someone wants to know exactly what to expect, I can tell them what my experience was and is now.

Buddy K0533

Donor Story: My experience was very positive. The whole process went very smoothly - including the surgery and recovery - and if I can be of assistance and or support to someone else then it would be my pleasure.

Buddy K0651

Donor Story: I am a physician and a donor. I understand the medical terminology and can explain it to layperson.

Buddy K0797

Donor Story: As someone who donated 30 years ago, I can provide insight into the process, and also share my experiences in both the short term affects, as well as what it is like to live as a donor over the long term. One of the questions I had when I donated was what will it be like years down the road living with one kidney. I wasn't able to get that information from someone who experienced it when I donated, but now I'm in a position to answer that for someone else.

Buddy K0362

Donor Story: I did a great deal of research prior to my procedure, so I have a great deal of knowledge to share. I simply feel that I can be a valuable resource to anyone considering living kidney donation.

Buddy K0730

Donor Story: I have been through a roller-coaster of ups and downs but stayed optimistic through it all. I lost my son the year before I donated and as a police officer I have always wanted to help others. I believe hard things are used for good. I am also a Christian and believe that we should help others when an opportunity presents itself (personal belief not to be forced on anyone else). The reward for the donor, in my opinion, is even greater than the recipient.

Buddy K0793

Donor Story: I feel that I can provide positive, honest, and compassionate feedback to what the potential donor is going through pre donation as well as post donation. My donation journey was a positive experience that I want to share with others to encourage and spread the word on donation.

Buddy K0786

Donor Story: The donation journey is such an emotional and soul searching experience. I spoke to experts, did my research, talked to other donors and knew that I was put on this earth to save my brother's life. If I had another kidney to spare I would do it again! My brother spent 3 years dying on dialysis - albeit it kept him alive but it was grueling on him and his body. He wanted to wait for a deceased donor and did not want to take my kidney. That waiting took its toll on him physically and emotionally. He experienced the ups and downs of being called for a kidney only to be disappointed that it was not viable. I started the testing process and found out I was healthy and a match! Convincing him to take my kidney was the next hurdle. I told him that by taking my kidney he was freeing up a kidney for someone on the transplant list that did not have a person willing to donate to them. He would be saving a life too! The transplant was a success and my brother's quality of life has improved dramatically! It's been such a positive experience raising awareness for kidney donation! Share your spare has become my mantra!

Buddy K0736

Donor Story: My brother was on dialysis for 3 years and his health was failing but he insisted on waiting for a deceased donor. I got tested and was a match but he still resisted taking my kidney. I presented it to him this way; not everyone is blessed enough to have a match from a living donor and the success rate is greater from a sibling. I explained by taking my kidney and coming off the transplant list he would not only be saving his own life but the life of someone else on the transplant list by moving them up. He finally agreed and we are both doing great and living healthy lives. Donating my kidney was the most important thing I've done in my life and I want to spread the word on donation and the positive life changing experience it has had on my life and my brother's life.

Buddy K0634

Donor Story: Becoming a living donor is sort of like being on a roller coaster... you work hard to get to the top then it's wonderful. But there is a point where you come back down and some people do well and others fall into a depression. And I believe I can provide some insight into those feelings.

Buddy K0571

Donor Story: I am passionate about organ donation and the impact it can have on people's lives. I am a recent donor and as an anonymous donor slightly less common. I am married and have two kids so I also can speak to the challenges faced by the family of an anonymous donor. Since donating a kidney I have felt that I need to continue to talk about how beneficial organ donation can be and encourage other people to consider this gift of life. At the same time it wasn't an easy or pain free process so I can let people know that it isn't an easy decision that should be rushed into at all. Speaking publicly about organ donation gives me a real sense of accomplishment.

Buddy K0279

Donor Story: It was an amazing experience to be able to help my nephew is such an important way. I think more people will make that choice if they know more about how successful the process can be for the donor. I would love to be able to share some tips with someone before the donation to make the surgical and recovery experience even better.

Buddy K0615

Donor Story: I had a positive experience. I did a lot of research and had many extenuating circumstances and life complications to balance during the process. Some of those complications: mother of school age children, going in for surgery at the same time as my husband, used NKR for a swap as we didn't match each other, was first rejected and then accepted as a donor - required additional tests, was unable to control the schedule due to the swap schedule, transplant took place in Ohio while we still lived in Atlanta so life management was complicated. All these experiences give me insight to many things to consider and manage as part of decision making and pre/post surgical life. I know how much it helped me to talk to two previous donors as I prepared and decided my path.

Buddy K0801

Donor Story: In donating a kidney to my spouse, I provided a much needed organ, so he can live a longer and healthier life without the burden of dialysis. I was grateful to Univ. of WI for the opportunity to donate my kidney as part of the paired donation process.

Buddy K0250

Donor Story: I would like to be able to give people the opportunity to ask questions with regards to my experience and to be able to offer support.

Buddy K0717

Donor Story: I would like to explain that I would never regret my decision to donate to my friend and co-worker. What are the chances that two people who worked together for 13 years and sit next to each other would be a match? I would also explain that it takes some work - testing, 24 hour urine collection, lab tests, EKG, kidney function, stress test and may require more than a few visits to the facility. I found that the transplant team was very knowledgeable and the patient advocate made sure that I knew if I wanted to stop the process anytime I could. The thing I did not think of was the emotional toll - since it was a friend and co-worker everyone knew at work & it was hard to know what to say when people said - that is selfless and you are incredible? How do you respond? I just said thanks. My last thing to share is that you need to have support when you get home - my sister stayed for 2 weeks. Keep the number to the transplant on call center handy and ask any questions - about meds, how you should feel, what you can expect. They give you instructions at the hospital but you are out of it & not comprehending. So just remember that there is a number to call. Please let me know if I can help someone else. Not through this program but through a friend of a friend I talked to someone in September 2018 and she was very helpful as she had just donated to someone that June that she did not know. She was glad to help and made her feel she experienced this all over again. Learning more information is so helpful. Sorry for my long reply! Take care, Mary Ann

Buddy K0498

Donor Story: I would like to assist someone who is contemplating being a donor to help them realize how wonderful the procedure of the giving the ultimate gift is.

Buddy K0508

Donor Story: My donation was completed nearly 30 years ago and I am still healthy (at least kidney-wise). Anyone with concerns about the long-term effects and how donation might affect quality of life could be helped by a bit of information I could provide.

Buddy K0753

Donor Story: I was 33 when I donated, and have had two daughters since, which is helpful as many donors are females in their early thirties without children who have questions about future pregnancies. I'm kind and patient and willing to answer lots of questions. Donation was a very positive experience for me.

Buddy K0795

Donor Story: Share my experience, strength

Buddy K0662

Donor Story: When I was researching donation, I ended up here at LDO. Some of the people I met here were absolutely instrumental in my decision to donate. It was so reassuring to speak with people who told of their experiences (both good and bad) honestly. I learned so much about donation, kidney function, immune system functions, and the emotional journey that donation becomes. I still refer people to LDO when they are considering donation, and because of the things I learned and the genuine people that I met, I would love to be able to help another person make the most informed decision possible - that is right for them. I had a wonderful experience donating (my recipient has only had 2 rejection episodes which were managed with medication changes) so I hope to be a positive voice for someone in an otherwise overwhelming situation. I hope that I can help potential donors make the decision that is right for them - even if it means not donating. I am just so grateful for the people I met here, and I want to be able to help others in their journeys.

Buddy K0340

Donor Story: Been there - done that! 69-year-old gay male, donor to partner of 40+ years. Member: Donor Advocate Team at the University of Texas Southwest Medical Center.

Buddy K0509

Donor Story: I dealt with significant family opposition to donation. After donation, I took advantage of the advice of other living donors and my physician and did my best to preserve my health and kidney function.

Buddy K0701

Donor Story: I have 2 small children at home (ages 2 and 6) and a full time job outside the home. My family lives about 2 hours away so we had limited local support. Planning and preparation was key, but my experience was beautiful!

Buddy K0047

Donor Story: I had the luxury of a long lead time prior to my donation to benefit a friend, during which I conducted a literature review of the published journal articles available at that time about hand-assisted laparoscopic nephrectomy, surgical complications, and donor post-op survival and quality of life. I also had less than universal initial approval for my decision from family, friends, and colleagues, which led to many conversations. I decided to donate, but found that decision hard to make, and strongly challenged. I'd be happy to discuss this with any prospective donors that feel it might help them make up their own minds, or just to answer questions about my own direct surgical experience.

Buddy K0654

Donor Story: Never consider age or fear a factor... life is good after the donation!...I was 72 years old when I donated my kidney a year ago. I spent less than 24 hours in the hospital and was fishing in Canada within four weeks of the donation and have been skiing to Austria and Alaska this last winter. You can still enjoy life without any ill effects after the donation.

Buddy K0740

Donor Story: I would be honest about the procedure from both an emotional and physical standpoint.

Buddy K0694

Donor Story: I could make their experience a less stressful event. And give an honest answer as to what happens and expect.

Buddy K0803

Donor Story: I was very scared to donate but found it to be a very rewarding experience.

Buddy K0404

Donor Story: I went through the process with mild complications. I know the benefits and some of the downfalls. I had many supporters and numerous people attempted to talk me out of this decision. I also know how it feels to go through this alone. I would love to support someone else through this gift of life.

Buddy K0729

Donor Story: I, unexpectedly, was connected by friends to two previous donors and had very positive experiences talking with each of them. It helped me to consolidate the great information I was receiving from my donor team with others' real world experiences, and I feel that I could help a prospective donor in the same way.

Buddy K0745

Donor Story: I had a great experience. I will answer any question as honestly as possible. I got an incisional hernia from my procedure also.

Buddy K0734

Donor Story: I have donated both a kidney and a portion of my liver. I donated both altruistically so I could speak about that experience with a potential donor. I had really positive experiences with my donations and have become very passionate about organ donation. I am happy to share anything I can about my experiences and support a potential living donor through their process.

Buddy K0655

Donor Story: Donating a kidney to a young man I did not know (Good Samaritan Donor Program at MUSC Transplant Center) was one of the most gratifying experiences of my life. I was hospitalized only two days and was back to work in just over two weeks. My recipient is now someone I consider a friend. He calls me every year on the anniversary of his transplant to thank me. I consider living donation a very positive experience for anyone who is in good health.

Buddy K0222

Donor Story: My father was diagnosed with PKD in 1999 and we were aware of his need for a transplant in 2003 and during the process of ensuring he was healthy to receive a transplant, they found cancer. We had to wait for him to be 5 years cancer free before a transplant could take place and in the meantime, he was placed on dialysis. I had 5 years to prepare myself to be his donor. Although I never had a second thought on donating, my father was initially hesitant on receiving my kidney. I am very detail oriented and wanted to know as much information as possible about being a living donor. I researched a lot of things online, found a mentor via this same website, and asked a lot of questions. I met several other living donors through acquaintances. One of those being a co-worker who donated to his nephew only 1 month before me. I look forward to sharing my experience with anyone who is interested or considering being a living donor.

Buddy K0622

Donor Story: I have been exposed to the prospect of kidney donation my whole life and have gathered a lot of information over the years. I have two cousins, a brother and nephew that have recently received kidneys with a brother and two cousins requiring transplants soon, so I can not only share my information, but things that I have learned from my family. I am very well researched. Having studied genetics and biology in college, I understand the technical aspects much more than the average person and have explained it to many so have determined the best way to communicate some of the complex concepts involved. I had a very positive experience and I am generally a very positive person.

Buddy K0339

Donor Story: While I was going through this process it would have been nice to have had the opportunity to visit with some who had experienced it all, to answer questions without feeling like you were given the textbook answers. This was an amazing positive experience for me. I would love to reassure a donor buddy that this is the greatest gift that can be given.

Buddy K0066

Donor Story: I would be a great resource and very supportive.

Buddy K0407

Donor Story: I had a positive experience as a donor, but will also tell the truth about all aspects of the experience. I would donate again if I could. It saved my sisters life.

Buddy K0238

Donor Story: I'm more than happy to answer any questions a potential donor would have. It truly was the most important thing I have done in my life so far. I would love to share my experience to help someone else give the gift of life.

Buddy K0816

Donor Story: I donated to a stranger. I can describe what the experience is like as a single parent with elementary and middle school age children. I hope to educate and encourage others if I can.

Buddy K0724

Donor Story: I am on the books as an anonymous donor after responding to a note posted at a grocery store. I met the recipient just after surgery and over 10 years we negotiated a relationship. Over the years I have talked to a variety of other donors and volunteered with the local organ procurement organization to recruit folks to sign their donation cards.

Buddy K0567

Donor Story: I have a relatively good understanding of the process and medicine behind the donation, as my wife is a physician and aided through this process. I can express myself well through writing, and am willing to share my recent experience candidly and openly. Also, I have an interest in educating the public on living donors, particularly kidney donation.

Buddy K0491

Donor Story: Because my kidney donation was two months ago, all the emotions and details are very clear. I would have loved to have a "donor buddy" along the way to confer with during the assessment period. I was hesitant to bother the kidney transplant team, even though they had assured me that they would welcome any questions.

Buddy K0804

Donor Story: I would like to offer assurance that you can have a normal life and go back to all the things your enjoy. I would also like to offer reassurance that even though it is a major surgery, it is completely manageable. I also like to tell people what a difference it can make in the life of the recipient.

Buddy K0435

Donor Story: When I learned that my dad needed a kidney without hesitation I volunteered. I was more than willing to help him but at the same time I looked for someone to help me through the process. I found a friend's sister to answer my questions and take me through her experience which was extremely helpful. Sometimes the effects of donations are unexplainable to others that have not been through it and I feel like expressing your concerns, feelings/emotions with someone that went through the same will help the donor.

Buddy K0236

Donor Story: So I could offer my experience and explain my process and my recovery to others considering donating.

Buddy K0124

Donor Story: When I looked at this site, I was sorry to see so few men. One of my biggest fears was not having someone "with the same plumbing" to talk to. I would like to be there to answer questions and give support to anyone who is thinking about donation. My donation was wonderful and my 14 year old daughter is doing great! If you need more information please feel free to email me.

Buddy K0675

Donor Story: I have very recent experience with donating a kidney and would provide a very honest and knowledgeable perspective. Although my experience was very positive, there were some down sides that I would certainly make the potential donor aware of. I am a volunteer with Donate Life, and really want to spread awareness about living donation.

Buddy K0310

Donor Story: My donation was over 10 years ago and I have perspective about how it affected my life. I am a registered nurse and have a strong interest in living kidney donation. I have volunteered in my community for public speaking about organ donation and my husband and I were named Volunteers of the Year by Mid-America Transplant Services in 2001. Although they mostly work with donor families for deceased donation, our work helped their organization.

Buddy K0782

Donor Story: I strongly believe that if a person is healthy and has even a slight interest in helping another individual through living donation, they should pursue the process of candidacy. I had a stranger that learned of my interest and his support and counseling helped me tremendously. I can do the same, I would be so grateful. My experience has been nothing short of magic!

Buddy K0515

Donor Story: Recent positive experience. I have spoken with previous donors and it helped me in my process of donating a kidney. If I could help someone else, I would be glad to do so.

Buddy K0400

Donor Story: My best friend has had Lupus for as long as I have known her. She had no family members who could do it. I had moved away from home (Chicago) to Seattle almost a year before the transplant, and when she told me she needed a transplant, I didn't hesitate to get tested to see if I was a match. It was a long suspenseful process but it was worth it, and it's been almost two years since. I feel great!

Buddy K0809

Donor Story: Both my wife and I are living donors. I have been through the process twice, once as a spouse supporting my wife. Second time has the donor. I am open and honest about my experience and would gladly share honestly to anyone interested.

Buddy K0738

Donor Story: To help others become a living donor.

Buddy K0695

Donor Story: I feel like I would be a good donor buddy for several reasons. First the donation was recent. I could give them very good advice on what to expect. I also had done a lot of research prior to my donation and also spoke to many other donors. Both male and female. I feel like I could be a good source of information and a great buddy along the way if they choose to donate. My donor buddies were honest with me and I would be the same to anyone who contacted me.

Buddy K0693

Donor Story: I donated in another state to a family member that didn't live there either. I learned about resources to help prepare for the eventual donation but also the journey to get there and how to adapt and handle any bumps along the road to get there. I had to lose weight (60 pounds so far) retake a couple of tests as well and handle a major curve ball (possible prostate cancer) along the way. I had to take a few steps before I could be scheduled for in-depth evaluation such as colonoscopy, weight loss, improvement in diet and key health statistics. I don't get too high or too low in most circumstances. While I am realistic in my expectations I am also very positive in outlook and share my positive approach to others on their journey towards donation.

Buddy K0278

Donor Story: I'm approachable, easy to talk with. I researched the donation process very thoroughly and can speak well to the process. I know others are fearful of the process and I think I can help alleviate some of their concerns about whether to donate.

Buddy K0709

Donor Story: I am very positive about my experience and would love to help potential donors navigate their questions about pre and post donation. There are many things I did not even think to ask and would love to provide the opportunity for potential and new donors to have a reliable resource.

Buddy K0784

Donor Story: I would like to be helpful for potential donors. I have personal knowledge and can relate. I did have a positive experience but also had normal and relatable issues. I am a good friend and listener to my friends and feel easy to communicate with.

Buddy K0746

Donor Story: The process to donate took nearly two years. I feel like I know about much of the emotional toll it can take to get to surgery day. I have come to know the importance of advocating for yourself when a situation doesn't feel right. I know that recoveries can vary greatly and I can recommend what worked for me. I know about some helpful books and support groups that can help prepare someone for the journey.

Buddy K0305

Donor Story: I am 64 y/o RN who researched the donation process and thought I was pretty well prepared for the surgery and post-op expectations. I had some surprises but have no regrets. I believe I could be helpful in a positive way to anyone contemplating a kidney donation.

Buddy K0798

Donor Story: My donation experience has been great. I had the support of a couple of "donor buddies" who answered a lot of question as I was making the decision to donate and who provided mental support afterwards during my recovery. I would love to help someone in a similar fashion.

Buddy K0808

Donor Story: I am an active advocate in my community and online about living kidney donation. I love talking to people about living donation and sharing my story with others, as well as learn about other living donors stories. I am passionate about helping future donors understand the process, the roller coaster of emotions and be there whenever there is a question, no matter how big or small.

Buddy K0737

Donor Story: I had a lot of questions even with my transplant team. I wish I could have talked to someone that had experienced a kidney transplant.

Buddy K0372

Donor Story: For me the decision was easy. I had anticipated from my youth that in some point and time my father would need a kidney transplant due to his diabetes. I believe that having nearly 25 years to prepare for this event mentally made it so simple when the time came. I realize that others do not have such time to prepare themselves and the pressure to choose in a short time frame can create a lot of questions and fears. I believe that I would be able to ease some of those fears in others simply through discussions of my own experience. I had wonderful Doctors who put me at ease from the first moment. The entire process was smooth and I couldn't have been happier. I wish to help ease the minds of others who get this great opportunity to donate.

Buddy K0733

Donor Story: I recently went through the process, so it is fresh in my mind. I also donated from out of state (live in Cincinnati, Ohio), so for people in that situation, I can offer advice and special considerations. I am a positive and realistic person who would love to help others through the process. I reached out to people who had donated as I was going through the process, so I would like to give back and be a source of information and support to others.

Buddy K0139

Donor Story: Im a normal guy. Im a father, Christian, and husband. Not sure what else to say.

Buddy K0642

Donor Story: The living donation experience changed me... for the better. I am in better health now than before the donation. My goal is to help educate others on the benefits of living donation and guide potential donors through the process.

Buddy K0721

Donor Story: I can answer their questions since I have been through this life changing experience.

Buddy K0731

Donor Story: I encourage and empower potential donors to understand and realize the amazing gift they can give. I also listen to their concerns and do not downplay any of their fears. I also give them hope that even if they are unable to donate that just being aware of the great need, they too might become an advocate. I also encourage them to look into donating blood or platelets.

Buddy K0550

Donor Story: Before I donated my kidney, I knew nothing about living donation. This web site helped me obtain information and I found someone to help answer my questions along the way. I am a wife and a mother of two. I know what it means to have a family and be worried about participation. I had a great experience and have a lot of helpful thoughts about the process and how to prepare; as well as after-care. I volunteer with an organ donation group locally and understand the importance of organ donation. I am here to help in any way I can!

Buddy K0744

Donor Story: Have been through the process. I donated to a friend who has not always taken care of himself. So would be a good mentor to someone who has those concerns.

Buddy K0805

Donor Story: I feel it's important that people know you can live a very full life after donation. And that the number of people waiting for a transplant is staggering.

Buddy K0752

Donor Story: I went through the process helping someone but in the end I became a stronger person wanting to help others.

Buddy K0424

Donor Story: I would be happy to share my very recent experience with any potential donor. I am married with 2 young children, so can share the process from the perspective of having kids. I am forthcoming and happy to share ups and downs!

Buddy K0706

Donor Story: I think I would be a great living buddy as I have been on both sides of the coin. I watched my husband receive a kidney from his best friend. I was there every step of the way, from finding out he had PKD to recovering from the transplant to maintaining a healthy life style. I also then after my husband was recovered donated a kidney to his other friend. It was very helpful to have watched someone go through it first and then do it again. I have the time to help someone who has questions and doubts. And if I could I would do it again!

Buddy K0534

Donor Story: I am a kidney donor and would love to answer any questions a potential donor may have. I gave, even though I could not give to my mother in law. I made a decision to give to a stranger and to spread the word, that organ donation is possible!

Buddy K0419

Donor Story: I'm just a normal working mom with three small kids living an ordinary life. I want to show people that life does go on after kidney donation and that even though it's a major surgery it's worth it and so rewarding. I'm approachable and easy to communicate with as well as an attorney, I communicate for a living!

Buddy K0295

Donor Story: I was part of a paired donation (match). It has some different challenges than a direct donation. I researched a lot prior to the donation. I am willing to share my experience or just listen.

Buddy K0750

Donor Story: I had an incredible donation experience and it is an integral part of my faith. I am able to listen without judgment and am an encourager.

Buddy K0757

Donor Story: Because I decided to do it for someone I didn't know very well, as opposed to a family member which is quite rare in Australia (altruistic donation is more common in the US). Most people in my community found it really surprising I would do this. I have found the experience to be fantastic, both physically (no issues) and psychologically. It has strengthened my own values, my family unit and has saved a life!

Buddy K0307

Donor Story: I might be a good buddy because (1) I am an older donor (59 years old); (2) I am an altruistic donor (do not know who recipient is); 3) I have genetic hypertension (controlled with medicine) and (4) I enlisted three virtual buddies to help me throughout the process and they were invaluable. I had been rejected by one program because of my hypertension but had also applied to Johns Hopkins which does additional screening of hypertensive candidate donors and I was accepted. I know what is it like to have family and friends worry about me doing this; I know what it is like to think through the risks and the reasons to donate. I can and will control my hypertension carefully. I am very glad I donated my kidney. I am a distance runner (trail marathons) and hope to get back to running soon (have to wait 6 weeks from surgery).

Buddy K0619

Donor Story: I have been through the experience and it was very positive. At first my dad did not want to accept but I convinced him.

Buddy K0559

Donor Story: While I am passionate about the unique opportunity living kidney donation is I also recognize it is not right for everyone. I am very willing to share details about my experience as a living kidney donor to remove some of the mystery regarding screening process, surgery and recovery. Course I can only speak from my experience as I'm sure things vary from person to person. In the last few years I have spoken at several regional Donor Open Mic Night events to share my experience and answer questions of potential donors and/or recipients. I am not affiliated with any hospital or health system and do not stand to personally benefit from the decision of a potential living donor.

Buddy K0811

Donor Story: Our donor process took almost 2 years. We ultimately ended up in a 3 way swap covering 3 states. All 6 surgeries on the same day. Our process was truly miraculous. My (recipient) husband also had some post transplant complications but now - 1.5 years later - he's thriving!!

Buddy K0008

Donor Story: I have not been trained specifically to counsel regarding donation, however, I am a licensed mental health therapist and I believe my professional training may additionally benefit my ability to be helpful to potential donors. I did have a very positive experience, although not perfect, and because I was very eager and anxious to contact others for their first hand experience prior to my own donation I think I understand how important and helpful it can be to be able to communicate with someone who has been there, done that. I wish I had had a Living Donor Buddy and would like to be able to provide that kind of help for others.

Buddy K0812

Donor Story: I have donated a kidney and my recovery process was difficult. I struggled with pain and depression afterwards. It felt like there would be no light at the end of the tunnel but there was. I can share my experience and that things do improve and that they are not alone. It's hard to share what you are going through with friends and family that haven't gone through it or was not supportive of the decision to do it in the first place. It can be a very lonely place afterwards.

Buddy K0703

Donor Story: Young, single person with a career plus also manage a nonprofit. I am kind, caring, compassionate. Open about the details of my experience. I want to share my experience with as many people as possible. I have never been sick, hospitalized or have had surgery prior to this. So this was a completely new experience for me in many aspects.

Buddy K0584

Donor Story: I donated my kidney through the kidney swap program. I was not a match for my sister. In order for her to receive a kidney I had to give a kidney. I was involved with a chain of 6 people! We all survived and are completely doing wonderful! 3 kidney recipients and 3 donors.

Buddy K0482

Donor Story: At the time I was trying to donate, I searched for any information I could find and there was little out there then. I met someone 2 weeks before my surgery who I could talk to and that really helped me out. I just want to be able to be that person for someone else. I have also done a lot of reading recently and see all the changes that have happened, so I feel up on polices, etc. (for example the requirement to collect data for 2 years and report to UNOS; knowing there is now an organization that might be able to help donors with some non-medical finances relating to the surgery, etc).

Buddy K0001

Donor Story: I have been active in the donor community since my own donation, learning much more about the process of donating a kidney that goes far beyond my own experience. I was also trained to participate as a donor mentor with a research program that evaluated the results of using donor mentors on the overall quality of experience by donors and potential donors. While my own experience was very good, I have come to see many experiences that have not been as good. I believe I would be able to answer many questions presented by potential donors and help them to be prepared for each step of the process.

Buddy K0756

Donor Story: Until I became a donor and did my own research I didn't fully understand living donation. If I had known what I know now I would have done this years ago!! Would love to help someone through this amazing process!

Buddy K0815

Donor Story: I am in process of going through a formal training through WELD - my training will be March 19th, 2024. https://donatelife.net/how-you-can-help/take-action/donate-life-weld/ I think anyone who is able should become a living donor. It is one of the most beautiful, amazing experiences of my life and I would love to be a positive advocate and support for anyone who has questions about being a living donor.

Buddy K0758

Donor Story: I donated as an older person (59 years old at time of donation) and had a very good experience. My living after the surgery is really very back to normal. I am a learner and attempt to find out everything I can about the process, before surgery and even now. I currently belong to two FaceBook groups for kidney donors, which keeps me in touch with experiences of different people. By nature, I am a teacher (taught in public schools for 35 years) and lead several adult learning groups. I also mentor teachers who are looking to advance their certifications, so I know how to work with adults with questions. I would love to help someone through the process!

Buddy K0467

Donor Story: I lost a close friend 12 years ago who was a donor to a man in Chicago. That man in Chicago was the same man I donated my kidney to just last month (May 2012). I have seen all sides of donation/loss and have a unique perspective on the process. I had 2 years to research and decide if this was the right decision for me. I had a great support with friends, family and hospital staff and am so thankful for that. I would be more than willing to share my story with someone else who is contemplating donation or may be in the research phase. I am not an expert in any of it, but any way I can advocate for organ donation or even just be a resource I would be honored.

Buddy K0791

Donor Story: I have the desire to share my experience with others, as I wish I had more guidance through the process. Although everything worked out for the best, I wish I had more assurance and had connected more with some who had personally went through the process. The medical staff I had was great but none of them had personal experience.

Buddy K0807

Donor Story: I would love to give someone the opportunity to ask any questions to someone who has been through the whole process. I felt this would have been very beneficial to myself prior to and after donation. I am an honest and down to earth person who wants to help people along their exciting and sometimes bumpy ride to kidney donation!

Buddy K0749

Donor Story: I would like to give others the support that may feel that they want or need. This is a huge decision.

Buddy K0722

Donor Story: Without organ donation I likely would have lost my brother after he was diagnosed with a rare liver condition in 2012. His journey was my original impetus for donation, and it was the most fulfilling decision I have ever made. I am gratified to know that the recipient and other recipients/donors within the chain will be afforded another 10-15 years of life without having to experience the harrowing and debilitating treatment of dialysis. We do more than we think we can.

Buddy K0346

Donor Story: I have a wealth of information on the process and will be very candid about my experience. No questions off limits. I understand and empathize with the gravity of making this tough decision. For me, it has all been worth it seeing my mother's new quality of life and I look forward to sharing our story and connecting with other people going through the same process.

Buddy K0686

Donor Story: After experiencing the donation process, I am much more of an advocate. Like most donors, I did not understand the process until I became involved and it was very scary. I would have appreciated talking to someone who had gone through the process. In the end, no one can say if you will have similar experiences, but knowing how many people go through it and what their experiences were would have been very helpful.

Buddy K0598

Donor Story: If someone has questions about how to prepare for the surgery, what kind of support they might need before or after surgery and to have someone who has been through this life changing experience. It was AMAZING! If I have one thing to share it is to let them know it was absolutely worth doing.

Buddy K0799

Donor Story: While the doctors can give you a lot of information, I found it most helpful to hear from someone that has done it to give me some real life advice. I had a great experience and donation is part of my every day life now so I would love to share that with others. I can't donate again, so this is the next best thing - helping others to donate.

Buddy K0790

Donor Story: The process was easy but long. Lots of questions along the way that I would love to help someone navigate through and make the right decision for themselves.

Buddy K0360

Donor Story: Since my experience was so positive and recovery was so minimal I would like to be an advocate for others that truly want to change lives. I would explain that it may have changed my physical life slightly, but my spiritual and emotional life will be forever changed for the better.

Buddy K0788

Donor Story: I am open and honest about the pain afterwards. I was very athletic at the time. I worked out with weights, ran races, and played soccer. I also had severe osteoarthritis in my knee. So I could no longer take ibuprofen. Since then, I returned to soccer , working out and races. I have had knee replacement and several broken bones. I teach school and live a normal life. I've been asked by anyone I have talked to- can I drink alcohol. The answer is yes in moderation. It isn't recommended but one drink every couple of months was fine per my doctor. I drink a lot of water daily. (60oz) I have the same energy. I was back to work in 2 weeks with no heavy lifting. I was playing soccer in 12 weeks. When I get sick or take any meds- I double check with doct and pharmacist to make sure it won't hurt my one kidney. It was totally worth it then and still worth it 13 years later.

Buddy K0446

Donor Story: I can share my story and support them through the process. I found talking to people who had lived through the experience very helpful.

Buddy K0714

Donor Story: I had a great experience overall which does not mean there were difficult times, changes in surgery dates, disappointments with antibody levels or feelings of frustration during the process. I'd love to advocate for living donation and want to help ease the mind of those who are interested and able to donate. Professionally, I am a Certified Health Education Specialist and have a large knowledge base about donation and the transplant process. Additionally, I was 26 when I donated so my experience might be relevant to younger donors.

Buddy K0538

Donor Story: I donated to my co-worker's 12 year old son in 2009 and worked for a national organization dedicated to educating this country about kidney disease and how to prevent it. I have coached two people through the process and they have since had successful transplants and recoveries! I am passionate about organ donation and a huge advocate! I'm willing to share my story and knowledge with those who need it. Thanks!

Buddy K0374

Donor Story: I could share my experiences, hopes, and joy and fears around the transplant as well as after as it happened eight years ago.

Buddy K0789

Donor Story: The process of living donation can be quite scary and overwhelming. There's nothing better than getting real advice from someone who has been through it; someone to encourage you when it gets rough, someone to bounce thoughts off of; someone to uplift you during the process. That's what I want to be for someone.

Buddy K0787

Donor Story: I have some years under my belt and so have seen more than just the immediate before and after. I have experienced the joy of meeting my recipient and seeing the good that the transplant did for him and his family and also the sadness when my recipient later died of cancer.

Buddy K0444

Donor Story: Not sure, easy to talk to.

Buddy K0606

Donor Story: I went into the donation with an open heart. I wish that I had a fellow donor to talk with before and after the donation. No one really explained the emotional effects that come up months after the donation and I wish that I had someone to discuss them with at the time. I would like to be able to be there for someone going through the process and be a shoulder for after as well.

Buddy K0668

Donor Story: I struggled to find someone who I could talk to. It would have been amazing to find someone who understood my feelings, worries, stresses, excitement, etc. As someone active in church ministry I understand how to listen in love, genuinely not judge and condemn a person over feelings & choices, and above all else care & cover their heart.

Buddy K0712

Donor Story: I am married with two adult children. I work two jobs and take care of my mom who has Alzheimer's. I have a full plate everyday but I wanted to donate so much! I made it work and I wouldn't trade the experience for anything! I think everyone should be an organ donor period and if you are given the privilege to donate while still living that's an experience you will never ever regret or forget!

Buddy K0358

Donor Story: I understand the negative responses that a potential donor can receive from friends and family and how a donor can be torn between wanting to help someone and the upset it may cause to the people who love them and are concerned for their well being. Maybe I can help guide someone through the emotional roller coaster they may experience.

Buddy K0562

Donor Story: Open, honest, enthused about the donating process. Had a great experience.

Buddy K0810

Donor Story: I recently donated my right kidney on behalf of my husband. I was not a match for him, so we participated in the Paired Alliance parried exchange program. Overall it has been a great experience and I am so happy to have done it. We do not have children yet, but plan to start trying next year when my body is fully healed.

Buddy K0472

Donor Story: My donor experience was very positive. I was surrounded with amazingly supportive family. The testing process was a little maddening, but I want potential donors to know that they have the strength to get through the process. I did and I thought I was such a wuss! But now, I KNOW I'm strong! I want to help someone else have the experience that I did. If we keep passing along what we know, hopefully we can raise awareness.

Buddy K0026

Donor Story: Personal experience is more valuable than theory. I think potential donors would get a lot out of being able to talk to a donor as well as to their medical professionals.

Buddy K0759

Donor Story: I can share my positive experience with my donation. I waited six years to donate my kidney to a coworker. I waited and moved across country and still determined to help the recipient. I can explain what to expect before surgery and after surgery. I would tell them to listen to your body and don't push recovery. I had a very rewarding experience and would be a help of moral support to someone having questions (in the process) or interested in donation.

Buddy K0726

Donor Story: Hello, I donated my kidney when I was 19. I started the process at 18 years old. My grandpa received a kidney when I was a child and it changed my perspective on life forever. When I donated, I was not a direct match so I did research and we got on a chain. I have a lot of information on donors as well as families recipients. I've been on both sides of it.

Buddy K0783

Donor Story: I was initially rejected by one hospital as a donor for my son due to 5 incidents of kidney stones as well as having some scar tissue in my abdomen from previous surgeries I had when I was very young. Changed hospitals and doctors and convinced another team to re-evaluate me. That team said I would not be accepted by any transplant program in the US with my medical history, but they were able to determine what they believed caused my stones and took they chance. Surgery went fine (I mowed my yard 5 days post transplant) and my son and I are both doing very well 6 years post-transplant. Local news did a TV story on our experience and the hospital still invites me to speak to potential donors and share the story. As far as doctors know, I am the only person to ever be accepted as a living donor after 5 incidents of kidney stones.

Buddy K0702

Donor Story: I was a non-directed donor who switched programs during the approval process. After being initially cleared for surgery, the status of my intended recipient changed. After that, I moved to a transplant center closer to my home. Being involved with two programs was unique, and gave me insights into what additional testing might be required if a donor changes programs. Also, my age at the time of donation was 54.

Buddy K0524

Donor Story: Because I was unfamiliar with this entire process, I did a good bit of research to prepare myself before the transplant. I have since helped two others through the process with excellent outcomes for both of them. I STRONGLY believe in organ donation and would love to help more people through this wonderful gift of life.

Buddy K0671

Donor Story: My experience is recent. My body is still healing, and it is all still fresh in mind. I had a very positive experience with my donation and I had the best possible team on my side. I feel I would be a good buddy to a potential donor for the same reason I became a living donor, I want to help. And as I did, I feel like I can.

Buddy K0725

Donor Story: I am a very compassionate person and love to help others. I had an amazing experience donating and would love to help others have the same experience.

Buddy K0727

Donor Story: I went through two evaluations with the recipient. He was rejected at a different facility so I can help people facing that possibility. Also I would donate again in a heartbeat despite post-operative complications (paralytic ileus) and can help donors understand that the rewards outweigh the risks, but there are risks.

Buddy K0547

Donor Story: I understand the questions and concerns that accompany the decision to donate a kidney. I have also been in the unique position of seeing the life of the recipient on dialysis giving me a perspective on both sides of the donation and also both sides of the surgery. I believe I can be a good source of information and support for any potential donor.

Buddy K0755

Donor Story: When I made the decision to donate to my father, I did not have a relationship with him. I did not meet him until I was 25 and then we didn't talk for many years. I heard from another relative that he needed one. It was a long hard process to decide to donate. I feel like I would make a good living donor buddy to someone who was dealing with a complicated situation. My decision wasn't a "of course I'm donating" situation. I think there are others out there that are in the same situation and would benefit from my journey.

Buddy K0728

Donor Story: I had a very easy and positive experience donating anonymously to a stranger. Also, I am a bioethics professor so I have a lot of experience talking through the ethics of donation if that's ever of concern to a potential donor.

Buddy K0393

Donor Story: Someone may want to be in contact with me as a a living donor buddy to help them understand the process, answer questions they may not feel comfortable asking anyone else and to understand what the experience can mean on a broader scale as opposed to simply the procedure/follow up medical part of the experience. They may want to know someone who is years past the operation (I am six years past.) It can be a bit scary to go thru the testing and then finally be scheduled for a donation. The nephrologist or administrator can only answer so many questions. I would like to have talked with someone who had been through the experience. It would not have affected my decision but would have given me much greater comfort and peace to know then what I know now.

Buddy K0234

Donor Story: I had a very uneventful procedure, a mostly uneventful recovery so far, and my donor has had no rejection episodes in 7+ months. It's all positive!

Buddy K0802

Donor Story: I would love to speak to anyone considering donation and help them through the process. It can be overwhelming and I think speaking to someone who has done it (like myself) would be helpful to someone thinking about it.

Buddy K0386

Donor Story: I would like to share my experience with others so they will have a clearer understanding of what they will be going through. Information and education is key to a better experience.

Buddy K0670

Donor Story: I donated my kidney to someone I had never met. I did know my recipient's wife. We are coworkers at a school. One of the reasons I decided to donate was because about 4 years ago a family friend received a kidney from a living donor. That put the idea in my head. When I saw on Facebook that my coworker's husband was in need of a kidney and he is the same blood type as me it did not take me long to decide to donate. I didn't have any issues with the testing except the doctors wanted me to lose 10 lbs. Both our surgeries went well and our recoveries are going well also. If you have any questions or concerns with anything about the whole kidney donation please ask away.

Buddy K0489

Donor Story: If only to help with questions concerning the donations side of things.

Buddy K0602

Donor Story: To share the experience and give support and encouragement during this experience.

Buddy K0723

Donor Story: I have for NKR in the past and part of my job was to screen potential donors & to help them thru the entire process...from making the decision to donate to recovering at home...I must have helped about 50 or so donors thru the process....so I feel that I am very helpful to someone who is going thru the donation process...